The tools of affiliation and
the weapons of abuse:
Alienation,
alignment and attachment
theory
More than 40 professionals from across New
Hampshire,
Vermont and Massachusetts attended
this fast-paced and informative program.
Relevant materials are presented below
for your follow-up and future reference.
Questions? Reach Dr. Garber
directly
1.
To get started:
Read about what is and what is not
alienation here
Access the
select bibliography
Pop quiz: Is
alienation a syndrome? Can it be diagnosed in a child?
2. Learn about attachment
theory
Read "Attachment 101 Read my paper on attachment
and alienation Read about what is NOT
alienation
Pop quiz: Can you define
attachment? Extra credit: How does
attachment relate to alienation?
3. Learn about the dynamics associated with
alienation
Read my paper (draft)
about the aligned dyad
Pop
quiz: Can you explain adultification, parentification,
infantilization and enmeshment? For extra credit: Do you
see these as concurrent with, causal of or independent of alienation?
4. Stumpers:
How can mediators help parents
prevent alienation? How can mediators respond to
alienation when its evident? How should the courts respond when
a parent is overtly alienating? Where is the line between
alienation and estrangement? When (if ever) should a
child be shifted from one parent's primary care to the others? BTW: Is alienation abuse?