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Curriculum
Vitae
Benjamin
D. Garber, Ph.D.
Psychologist
New Hampshire License 475
Parenting Coordinator
Guardian ad litem
New Hampshire Certificate 2005
Academic History
1987
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The Pennsylvania
State University
University
Park, Pennsylvania
Doctorate: Child
Clinical and Developmental Psychology
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1983
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The Pennsylvania
State University
University
Park, Pennsylvania
Master of Science:
Child
Clinical Psychology
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| 1981 |
The University
of Michigan
Ann Arbor,
Michigan
Bachelor of Arts,
Summa Cum Laude:
Developmental
Psychology and Psycholinguistics |

Clinical
Experience
1999-present
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HealthyParent.com, private practice
in clinical, consulting and forensic psychology
Providing comprehensive evaluative and therapeutic interventions to
children, families and
child-centered institutions.
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1989-1999
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Slatoff & Ward, Psychological Associates/Southern New Hampshire
Regional Medical Foundation
(Nashua,
New Hampshire)
Clinical Child
Psychologist:
Providing
out-patient individual, family and group psychotherapy to children,
adolescents
and teenagers; comprehensive psychological assessment, including
intellectual,
achievement and projective testing; Emphasizing forensic evaluation and
interventions, including comprehensive custody evaluation, and therapy
with children
of separation and divorce.
Co-Administrator
and
co-founder, The
Forensic Psychology Division of Slatoff & Ward. Administrative and
organizational responsibilities including staffing, intake evaluation,
establishment of evaluation and intervention protocols, and liaison
with the
legal community.
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1990-2003
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St.
Joseph Hospital (Nashua, New Hampshire)
Independent Allied Health Professional,
Department of Psychiatry; Consultative privileges to provide in-patient
individual psychotherapy, standardized testing, and behavioral
management interventions; in-service consultant, pediatric nursing
staff; consulting psychologist, palliative care team, oncology unit.
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| 1993-2003 |
Southern New Hampshire
Regional Medical Center
(Nashua, New Hampshire)
Associate Medical Staff; Consultative
privileges to provide in-patient individual psychotherapy, standardized
testing, and behavioral management interventions.
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| 1990-1992 |
Nashua Brookside
Hospital/Northeast Psychiatric Associates (Nashua, New Hampshire)
Consulting Psychologist, Child and
Adolescent Psychiatric Services, Adult Psychiatric Services; Providing
fee-for-service in-patient individual and family psychotherapy,
multidisciplinary team consultation and aftercare placement liaison
functions.
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| 1987-1990 |
Nashua Brookside
Hospital/Northeast Psychiatric Associates (Nashua, New Hampshire)
Staff Psychologist, Child and Adolescent
Psychiatric Service, providing in-patient individual, milieu,
family and group psychotherapy, ages 5- through 18-years;
Multi-disciplinary team consultant and aftercare placement liaison.
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| 1986-1987 |
The Institute of
Living (Hartford, Connecticut)
Clinical Child Psychology Intern, (APA
Accredited, APIC Certified Institution): Providing in-patient
individual, group and family psychotherapy to children and adolescents;
Out-patient and day-patient individual and family therapy to children
ages 3-years and older; Comprehensive psychological and
neuropsychological assessment; Intensive supervision and didactic
seminars in topics including child diagnostics, play therapy
techniques, and dynamic interpretation.
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1982-1986
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The Psychological Clinic (University Park, Pennsylvania)
Out-patient individual and family
psychotherapy, including children ages 5-years and older; Comprehensive
intellectual, achievement and personality assessment; Intensive
clinical supervision and didactics including advanced assessment
techniques, play therapy, and family therapy.
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2009
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Mediation in the family courts
Rose Hill Mediation Training (John Cameron, Esquire, instructor)
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2005
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Guardian ad litem, New Hampshire
state certified
Serving New Hampshire superior courts in matters of family transition,
child custody, visitation, abuse and neglect. |
Consulting
and Community
Experience
| 2008-Present |
Parenting Coordinators of New Hampshire
(PCANH; see www.PCANH.org)
Founding
Co-president collaborating with family law professionals in the
interest of providing parenting coordination services across the state
in conjunction with national standards.
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| 2000-Present |
Ad hoc private clinical
consultant/supervisor
Providing clinical
supervision, consultation, ethical and liability management services;
practice building,
marketing and referral development consultation,under contract to
private practice clinicians, clinic group practices and to the New
Hampshire Board of Mental Health Practice.
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| 1998-Present |
HealthyParent.com
(http://www.healthyparent.com)
Founder and
Director, providing educational, consultative and curriculum
Development services through community and
professional presentations and publications across the United States
(and via the Internet) and direct consulting services.
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| 1997-Present |
Adult Learning Center, Early Childhood
Adventures Program (Nashua, New Hampshire)
Staff development
consultant and parenting liaison, providing staff training, child
assessment and educational services to parents; Facilitating family
support groups with impoverished, stressed parents.
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1997-2005
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Derry Cooperative School District
(Derry, New Hampshire)
District School
Counselor Consultant, providing weekly clinical consultation and
education to professional counseling staff, grades 1-9
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1997-1998
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Area Agency for Developmental
Services of Greater Nashua (Nashua, New Hampshire)
Clinical Consultant:
Conducting mental health/mental retardation service eligibility reviews.
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1995-2001
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"Good Grief"
Board of Directors,
assisting in curriculum development and consulting to clinical
providers regarding children’s bereavement
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1995-1998
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Southern New Hampshire Children and Adults
with Attention Deficit Disorders Association
Founding Advisory
Board Member and quarterly speaker
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1995-1996
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Mont Vernon Village School
(Mont Vernon, New Hampshire)
Behavior management
consultant, creator and administrator, "Think 1st" Facilitated
Communication and Conflict Resolution Program
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1990-1992
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Nashua Children's Association
(Nashua, New Hampshire)
Board of Directors;
Curriculum and Behavioral Consultant
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1993-1994
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Resource Center for the Changing Family
(Concord, New Hampshire)
Board of Directors;
Develop, administer and coordinate multi-disciplinary, state-wide
pre-divorce program.
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Teaching
Experience
2008
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University
Of New Hampshire Graduate Progarm in Counseling Psychology (Durham, New
Hampshire),
Consulting Mentor, Master’s level Counseling Intern
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1989-1991
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Rivier
College (Nashua, New Hampshire):
Instructor, Department of Psychology: Psychological Assessment;
Theories of Counseling and Psychotherapy. Advanced undergraduate and
graduate students.
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| 1982-1987 |
The
Pennsylvania State University (University Park, Pennsylvania):
Teaching Assistant and Lecturer: Experimental Psychology; Developmental
Psychology; Social Psychology. Undergraduate student population.
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Research
| 2006-2008 |
“Vulnerable children and their
psychological and mental health”
FAS dnr 2006-1633, grant proposal: Exploring a new forensic interview
tool for children:
The Query Grid. Collaborative multi-national research, Linkoping
University (M. Heimann, Ph.D.)
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| 2005-2007 |
Validating
children’s Q-sort responses in the context of divorce litigation in
association with
University of New Hampshire Master’s level intern
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1981-1987
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"Preverbal
understanding in infants"
Graduate school research culminating in doctoral dissertation
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1977-1981
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"The
psycholinguistics of anaphor"
Research assistant, University of Michigan
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Professional
Presentations
Professional
presentations on topics in developmental,
clinical and forensic
psychology and family
law, including but not limited to:
05.18.2011
(anticipated)
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State of Connecticut, Judicial Branch -
Family Services Division (New Britain, Connecticut)
"Finding Fit:
Interviewing Children and Assessing Conflicted Family Systems."
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05.19.2011
(anticipated)
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State of Connecticut, Judicial Branch -
State Certified Custody Evaluators (New Britain, Connecticut)
"When Co-Parents
Conflict: Understanding and Responding to Children of Divorce"
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04.29.2011
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Massachusetts
Association of Guardians Ad Litem (Boston, Massachusetts)
Invited
Panel Participant and Presenter,
"Legal Standards and Child Develoopment:
You Can't Have One Without The Other."
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02.04.2011
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Ontario Bar Association
(Toronto, Ontario,
Canada)
"Systemic confounds and the child's voice
in family law."
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01.14.2011
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Saskatchewan Trial
Lawyers' Association (Regina,
Saskatchewan Canada)
"One size can never fit all:
Developmentally-informed fmaily law practice, process, and remedies."
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10.30.2010
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Association
of Family and Conciliation Courts (Boston, Massachusetts)
"Alienation and the dynamics of the
enmeshed dyad: Adultification, parentification and infantilization."
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| 07.08-10.2010 |
The
National Judicial
Institute of Canada (Victoria, British Columbia)
Invited
speaker” “The child’s voice in family law proceedings”
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| 07.11-13.2010 |
The
Federation of Law
Societies of Canada (Victoria, British Columbia)
Invited
speaker: “Co-parental conflict and divorce in developmental
perspective.”
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| 04.02.2010 |
New
Hampshire
Conflict Resolution Association (Concord,
New Hampshire)
Invited
speaker: “The tools of affiliation and
the weapons of abuse: Alienation, alignment and attachment theory"
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| 05.15.2009 |
New
Hampshire Psychological Association (Hampton Beach,
NH):
"Keeping
Kids Out Of The Middle.”
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| 11.13-14.2008 |
University
of Wisconsin
Extension Service (Wisconsin Dells, Wisconsin)
Invited keynote speaker and seminar
leader: Through The Eyes Of The Child
annual conference
"One size must never fit all! tailoring
forensic remedies to developmental differences" (keynote)
"Velcro Kids Part 1:
Understanding attachment across development"
"Velcro Kids Part 2:
Attachment applications for forensic professionals"
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| 10.24.2008 |
Minnesota Association of Conflict Resolution
Specialists (Minneapolis, Minnesota)
Invited
speaker: "Assessing and enabling children's attachment security in the
midst of co-parental conflict, separation ands divorce."
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| 10.03.2008 |
Massachusetts Association of Guardians ad litem (Waltham, Massachusetts)
Invited panel presenter: "The three Ds of
Parent Coordination: Dynamics, Dilemmas and Directions."
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| 05.17-18.2007 |
Wisconsin
Interprofessional Committee on Divorce (Wisconsin Dells,
Wisconsin)
Invited keynote presenter, "In the Best
Interests of the Child: Clinical and forensic perspectives on attachment
security, co-parental conflict, separation and divorce."
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| 04.26.2007 |
Massachusetts
Association of Guardians ad litem (Waltham, Massachusetts)
Invited presenter: Domestic Violence:
Psychological Abuse in Family Law
“Alienation as domestic abuse by proxy”
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| 04.18.2007 |
New Hampshire Infant
Mental Health Task Force/Adult Learning Center (Nashua, New Hampshire)
"Understanding and responding to Attention
Deficit (Hyperactivity) Disorder"
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| 11.17-18.2006 |
Cambridge
Health Alliance/Harvard Medical School (Cambridge, Massachusetts)
Invited presenter, “Uncoupled:
Co-parenting interventions in the best interests of the children.”
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11.10.2006
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Idaho
Psychological Association (Boise, Idaho)
Invited keynote speaker: “From theory to
therapy to courtroom: Attachment, alienation and the best interests of
the child.”
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| 10.07.2005 |
The New
Hampshire Bar Association (Concord, New Hampshire)
Invited speaker, “Understanding and
Responding to Children’s Best Interests Under NH RSA 461-A”
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2005-present
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New
Hampshire Guardian ad litem Board (Concord, New Hampshire)
Periodic invited trainer and consultant,
Superior Court GAL training programs:
Child and family development; interviewing
children; conducting a custody evaluation;
Understanding/evaluating alienation
and alignment; what is the best interest of a child?
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2004-2006
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PESI
Healthcare: Consulting speaker, providing full-day training and
consultation to mental health
and
family law professionals across the United
States, including:
“Conducting psychotherapy with Children of
Parental Discord and Divorce”
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1993-present
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Annual middle and high school based
parent-child mental health/family well-being presentations, including:
PACT (Parents and Children Together),
Nashua, New Hampshire
Project SafeGuard,
Merrimack, New Hampshire
Milford, New
Hampshire
Amherst, New Hampshire
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Professional and
Popular Press Books
Learn more

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Developmental Psychology for Family Law
Professionals: Theory, Application and The Best Interests of the Child
Garber, Benjamin
D. (2009). Springer.
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Ask an Expert
Garber, Benjamin
D. (2009). (Serving as consulting
psychologist to Penguin Books, NY), written
by Dr. Claire Halsey.
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Keeping Kids Out Of The
Middle: Parenting
Effectively In The Midst Of Adult Conflict, Separation and Divorce
Garber, Benjamin
D. (2008). Health Communications,
Incorporated.
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Your Toddler Month By Month
Garber, Benjamin
D. (2008). (Serving as
consulting psychologist to Penguin Books, NY), written
by Dr. Tanya Byron.
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The HealthyParent’s ABCs: A
Caregiving Curriculum
Garber, Benjamin D.
(2003) HealthyParent.com.
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Taming The Beast Within:
Managing Anger For Ourselves And Our Children
Garber, Benjamin
D. (1998; revised 2000,
2002, 2003) HealthyParent.com. |
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The Co-parent’s Companion
Garber, Benjamin
D. (1997; revised 2000,
2002, 2003) HealthyParent.com.
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Raising Functional Families
Garber, Benjamin
D. (1996; revised 2000,
2002, 2003) HealthyParent.com. |

Professional
Publications
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Garber, Benjamin D.
and Landerman-Garber, Laura (Spring, 2011). Muchmore and Jaycox: A Call
For Developmentally-Responsive Parenting Plans. New Hampshire Bar Journal, 54-57.
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Garber, Benjamin D.
(February, 2011). The Voice Of The Child In High Conflict Divorce:
Systemic, Developmental, and Practical Considerations. Paper prepared
for presentation to the Ontario Bar Association.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (2011). Parental alienation and the
dynamics of
the enmeshed dyad: Adultification, parentification and infantilization.
Family Court Review, 49(2), 322-335..
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (2009). Attachment
methodology in custody evaluation: Four hurdles standing between
developmental
theory and forensic application. Journal
of Child Custody, 6(1&2), 38-61.
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Garber, B. (2007).
Conceptualizing
visitation resistance and refusal in the context of parental conflict,
separation and divorce. Family Court
Review, (4)1, 588-599.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (2007). Developing a
structured interview tool for children embroiled in family litigation
and
forensic mental health services: The Query Grid. Journal
of Forensic Psychology Practice, 7(1), 1-18.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. & Landerman, L.
(Summer, 2006). How should the child’s voice be heard when
parental rights and responsibilities are contested? New Hampshire Bar Journal.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (2004). Parental alienation in light of attachment theory:
Consideration of the broader implications for child development,
clinical
practice and forensic process. Journal of
Child Custody, 1(4), 49-76.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (October, 2004). Court responsibility and parental
privilege in
child custody cases. New Hampshire Bar News,
15(8), 24-25.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (2004). Therapist alienation: Foreseeing and forestalling
dynamics
undermining therapies with children. Professional
Psychology: Research and Practice, 35(4) 357-363.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (2004). Directed co-parenting intervention: Conducting
child
centered interventions in parallel with highly conflicted co-parents. Professional Psychology: Research and
Practice, 35(1), 55-64.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (August, 2004).
Walking on thin ice: Practical and ethical considerations when
conducting
psychotherapies with children and families in turmoil and transition
due to
separation and divorce. Webcast continuously accessible via
www.nhpaonline.org .
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (2002, 2003, 2004)
Walking on thin ice: Practical and ethical considerations when
conducting
psychotherapies with children and families in turmoil and transition
due to
separation and divorce. Presentation to the New Hampshire Psychological
Assn., Franconia, New Hampshire.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (February, 2001).
ADHD or not ADHD: Custody and visitation considerations. New Hampshire Bar
News, New Hampshire
Bar Assn.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (1998-2002).
Contributing editor, Special Child e-zine
(www.specialchild.com).
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (1998). Practical
interventions for attention disordered children. Attention.
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Garber, Benjamin
D. (April, 1996).
Alternatives to alienation: Acknowledging the broader scope of
children’s
emotional difficulties during divorce. The New Hampshire
Bar Journal.
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (Summer, 1994). Practical Limitations in Considering
Psychotherapy
with Children of Separation and Divorce. Psychotherapy,
31(2).
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Garber,
Benjamin D. (1986). Of Beasties and Butterflies: Evidence for the
Stability and Domain Specificity
of Individual Differences in Categorization. Journal of
Personality, 54,
647-658.
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Garber,
Benjamin D., and Nelson, K.E. (1982). "Category Acquisition in
Infancy." Funded Grant Proposal,
The National Institutes of Mental Health, Bethesda, Maryland. |

Popular
Press Publications
Learn more
In
the capacity of freelance writer in the areas of parenting, child and
family
development,
over 750 articles appearing across the United
States, Canada,
Australia
and
Great Britain,
including,
as examples :
Is
My Child
Psychologically “Fit”?
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School’s
Back On:
Do You Know How Your Child Learns?
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Parenting
Apart:
Keeping the Kids Out Of the Middle
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Dividing
the Kingdom:
Preparing Your First Born for Siblings
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Speaking
Out for Your Child’s Education:
Parents as Advocates in the Schools.
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Feeling
Safe and Being Safe, or
Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!
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Shoring
Up the Foundation:
Helping Children to
Become Secure and Confident
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The
Parable of the Jealous Princess, or Establishing Sensible Visitation
for Young Children of Separated Parents
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Keeping Inkie's Gift Alive
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The
Subtlest Hurt of All
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Keeping
in Touch with School
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Single
Parenting:
Doing the Impossible Daily
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Taming
the Beast Within: Managing Anger in Ourselves and Our Children
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Tag
Team Parenting
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A
Word About
The Games Children Play
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Parking
Lot Parenting
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Feeling
Safe and Being Safe
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If
the Shoe Fits
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Will
She Ever Get Her
Clothes in the Hamper?
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“Its
Not Fair!” and
Five Other Party Planning Pitfalls
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The
Beauty in the Boredom:
Routines and Rituals that Help Your Children Grow
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Surviving
the Bedtime Hour:
Getting Children to Sleep
and Keeping Them Asleep
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Managing
Behavior
One Day at a Time
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Raising
Reasonably Responsible Kids, Really!
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Power
Struggles?
Premack Them!
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Spare
the Rod,
Spare the Child
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Coping
with Childhood Bullying
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Testing
the Limits
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These
publications include receipt of the March of Dimes,
Distinction
in Media Excellence Award
and have
variously appeared in print and via electronic media in publications
including,
but not limited to:
The
Tucson Parent
(Tucson, Arizona) |
The
Atlanta Parent
(Atlanta, Georgia) |
The
San Francisco Peninsula Parent
(San Francisco, California)
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Fairfield
County Kids
(Fairfield, Connecticut) |
Indy’s
Child
(Indianapolis, Indiana) |
The
Big Apple
Parents’ Paper
(New York City, New York) |
Long
Island
Parenting News
(New York City, New York) |
Western
New
York Family
Magazine
(Buffalo, New
York) |
Mahoning
Valley
Parent
(Youngstown, Ohio) |
El
Paso’s
Kids Magazine
(El Paso, Texas) |
The
Carolina Parent
(Durham, North
Carolina) |
Alaska
Parenting News
(Anchorage, Alaska) |
Sydney’s
Child
(Sydney, Australia) |
ValleyKids
Parent News
(Chicago, Illinois) |
Melbourne’s
Child
(Melbourne, Australia) |
Family
Times
(Delaware) |
ParenTimes
(Nashua, New
Hampshire)
Regular contributor 1996-2000
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The
Sunday
Telegraph (Nashua, New
Hampshire)
Twice monthly column 1998-present
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Professional Affiliations
(A
partial list as of 07.2010)
Family
Resource Center of Nashua (Founding member, 2009)
Parenting
Coordinators of New Hampshire
(Founding co-president 2008)
The
American Psychological Association
New Hampshire Conflict Resolution
Association
Massachusetts Association of Guardians ad
litem
National
Register of Health Service Providers in Psychology
The
Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
The
New Hampshire Psychological Association (2006-2008 Membership
Chairperson)
New Hampshire Children's Lobby
New Hampshire Network
Parenting
Publications of America

Contracted Panel
Provider
Prior
to September, 1999, Dr. Garber was an active participant in and
contracted
panel provider for many insurance panels.
As of the opening
of his
private practice in 1999, he chose to withdraw from all such
participation
in
the
belief that the practical and ethical restrictions imposed by managed
health
care were untenable
and often diametrically contrary to the patient’s
well-being.
For
more information 
For Further
Information
References,
reprints, popular press articles and/or other documentation is
available upon
request.
Please contact Dr. Garber via post, e-mail
or phone to receive
any
further information.
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